Are We All Part of a 'Lost Generation'?
Ever stopped to think why every generation is often labeled as ‘lost’ in its own way? Take the raw, emotional depth of HBO's "Euphoria" or the disillusioned echoes from Hemingway's era – it's a recurring theme that spans decades. This idea that each new generation is somehow more adrift than its predecessor isn't a new one. It's a sentiment that stretches back centuries, even someone as ancient as Plato had his gripes about the youth of his time.
What makes us view the upcoming generation with a blend of skepticism and a touch of nostalgia for the past? To recognize this pattern is to understand a continuous cycle that shapes our perception across generations—and to make peace with it.
From "Euphoria" to Old Man Hemingway
A while back, I got hooked on HBO's "Euphoria," which made me think about all the rough patches the characters were going through. It felt a lot like what's happening today – and also somewhat like what every past generation has dealt with. Coincidentally, while reading Hemingway's “A Moveable Feast,” I stumbled upon a part where Gertrude Stein refers to his era as the “lost generation.” Hemingway, reflecting on the aftermath of World War I, speculated that perhaps all generations are inherently lost in their own way.
“I thought that all generations were lost by something and always had been and always would be.” - Hemingway
This also reminded me of reading Plato's observations about the new generation of Greeks in his time. It seems we've been confronting similar challenges for centuries, with each era presenting its unique set of circumstances. Additionally, nostalgia – our distorted memory of the past – will always suggest that earlier times were better.
Lost and Found: The Generation Game
Realizing that perhaps every generation is 'lost' in some way actually eases a burden. This awareness lifts the heavy expectation of "perfection" that society often imposes, instilling a sense of lightness and tranquility. It enables us to observe how the world functions, to accept it (which differs from mere conformity), and to contribute positively within our capabilities.
Chaos is Part of the Deal
The thing is: the world is ALWAYS going through chaos. It seems each generation experiences its own 'it's all going downhill' phase. But we keep on keeping on. We continually develop technologies and solutions that enhance people's lives, and we find moments of beauty, love, and happiness.
By the way, if you feel overwhelmed by everything that's been happening in the world, I suggest reading Jordan B. Peterson's '12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos'. It has really helped me to understand more about human nature and what we can do to navigate the complexities of life, embracing its challenges while making meaningful contributions.
So, What's the Takeaway?
Bottom line: All generations are lost. And even though they may seem 'lost,' each generation ends up making a lasting, positive difference.This is the complex and dual nature of our existence. It's one of those things we cannot change, only accept. The "messed-up" box and the "great contributions" box coexist for every generation.
I say, let’s do what we can — in the best way possible, preferably without freaking out too much.
Pop Culture References:
"Euphoria" (HBO Series): An American teen drama series that premiered on HBO in 2019, is known for its raw, unflinching exploration of adolescent life. Created by Sam Levinson, it follows a group of high school students as they navigate complex issues like drug addiction, sexuality, and mental health. Central to the story is Rue Bennett, played by Zendaya, a teenager struggling with substance abuse. The show has been lauded for its bold visual style, groundbreaking storytelling, and Zendaya's critically acclaimed performance, which earned her an Emmy.
"A Moveable Feast" by Ernest Hemingway: A memoir that vividly brings to life the Paris of the 1920s, a period when Hemingway was finding his footing as a young writer. Published posthumously in 1964, the book is a captivating blend of personal anecdotes and observations of Hemingway's life and the literary giants he mingled with, like F. Scott Fitzgerald and Gertrude Stein. It's not just a glimpse into Hemingway's early career but also a lively portrayal of the artistic community in Paris at that time. The title encapsulates the essence of the book beautifully, suggesting the lasting and transportable nature of memories. It's a work that is both personal and historical, offering a window into a fascinating era and Hemingway's development as a writer.
"12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" by Jordan B. Peterson: A thought-provoking book that combines psychology, philosophy, and personal anecdotes to explore how individuals can lead more meaningful lives. Published in 2018, the book is structured around twelve practical principles, such as taking responsibility for one's own life, seeking meaning over instant gratification, and the importance of setting your house in order before criticizing the world. Peterson draws from various fields, including mythology, religion, and scientific research, to present a guide that aims to help readers navigate the complexities of modern life. The book has been both praised for its insightful advice and critiqued for its controversial perspectives, making it a significant talking point in contemporary cultural discussions.
