Love vs Attraction...

6 Aug 2022

Love vs Attraction

In today's era, love and breakup happen very easily. Many times when we feel an attraction towards someone, we do not understand whether it is love or just attraction. It takes a long time to understand this love and attraction. After being in a relationship after some time, it is understood that your love was just attraction. 
If you are also in love, then some signs will definitely tell you whether you have only attraction towards your partner or true love. Just ask yourself some questions and explore your feelings. So let's know in which ways we can recognize love and attraction today.

are you worried about your partner?

Do you feel your partner's problems as your own or are you worried about him? If you care about his health to his financial problems, then your love is true, but as long as you live with your partner, you think for him or his problems do not bother you a lot, then it is only for a few days. There may be attraction.

Got crazy on seeing:

Falling in love is a long process. Sometimes people fall in love at first sight and sometimes you fall in love with someone while living with them. There is a lot of difference between the two. Love at first sight is usually associated with attraction. When you fall in love by being influenced by someone's behavior and personality, then there is stability in it. Whereas many times love at first sight depends on looks and beauty. On getting better options, old partners sometimes start breaking. Explore yourself with these questions too.

What is the thinking about distance

Do you feel sad about your partner's departure or your love in general remains the same even after your partner's departure. Both these things are to be understood very closely. Many times you want to stick with your partner due to attraction, but if there is true love, then you miss him by going away but your love remains the same. no fear of losing you.

miss your partner

True lovers keep their love alive even in long distance relationships. He cares about his love and he waits for it too, but the opposite happens in attraction. A new search begins as soon as the partner goes away.

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I’m of the belief that Love & Attraction go hand in hand - you are attracted to someone in the first instance, fall in love with that person and if you’re in love with them, you are also physically and mentally attracted to them.
Love and attraction both are quite usual terms nowadays. Gautam Buddha light of Asia once said that If you are attracted by flowers , you will keep on plucking those flowers , take photos or do other things, But if you love flowers, you keep on caring those flowers. So, in modern ways, Attraction could be with more of famous celebs or somethings while Love will be equalizable to our own thoughts of having it.
The definition of love among people has changed over time. It is said that earlier people used to have true love. But at present such a situation is rarely seen. This era of modernity has increased the influence of social media. In this era, most of the love starts through social networking sites and ends in them.
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There is difference between the two, but both can drive people crazy for good and bad.
Love is done from the heart whereas attraction is a product of our mind. In love, we do anything for our loved one, but in attraction it seems difficult, a person gets into thinking whether I should help my loved one or not. Attraction is the desire to like or have a person.
If you are in a relationship then it is very important to know the difference between love and attraction. It is said that the love of the past is not even half of the love of today. In today's world, even before love is known, how many days it is going to last.
When you get infatuated with a person, then the concoction chemical in the brain is responsible for this. When you are attracted to someone, this chemical is released very fast. Dopamine, norepinephrine and oxytocin together create the euphoria feeling in your relationship. When dopamine is released, it makes you feel better. At the same time, norepinephrine works to increase your feeling.
Attraction can happen to many people at a time whereas love can happen to only one person at a time. When we are attracted towards a person by seeing his/her beauty, his/her social status then that person is important to us only till someone else comes in our life. Love happens to only one person at a time, the person who is in love does not look for another during that time.
It is very common in our today's world for people to mistake love and attraction. Love is unconditional whereas attraction is tied to something
You like something and you want to get it but only by looking at its colour, appearance, good condition. So that attraction can be called Attraction. For example: You love Apple phones and want to get them. When we care about the happiness of others more than our own happiness. We never want to see him sad and in trouble, so he shows our love for him.