The essence of who you really are

18 Nov 2023

In a world obsessed with other people's ideas of success, it's easy to get lost. We're told that success means having a lot of money, a fancy title, or societal recognition. But here's the thing: following someone else's definition of success might lead you to a life that feels empty. From a young age, family, friends and society shape our idea of success. And we often end up chasing goals that aren't really ours. We fall into the trap of seeking approval from others, thinking it will bring us happiness. But here's a reality check: pursuing someone else's version of success will leave you feeling unfulfilled, sooner or later.

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Imagine reaching all the goals set by others. You have an expensive car, a corner office, a fat paycheck and recognition but you feel miserable along the way. On the surface, it may seem like you've achieved everything society deems valuable. Yet, deep down, a sense of emptiness pervades your every accomplishment. Despite the external trappings of success, the journey has been marked by dissatisfaction and a growing realization that these achievements were not aligned with your true passions. At this point, it's time to take a step back and think about what truly makes you happy and what activities bring you genuine joy. Your passion is your guide to your version of success. It's a personal journey. Explore your interests without worrying about what society expects. The journey matters as much as the destination.

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True happiness comes from aligning your goals with your passions and enjoying the journey. Follow your heart, and you'll find the path to happiness. Remember, success is not a rigid formula. It's about what brings you fulfillment, not what others expect. Your journey is unique, and your definition of success might differ from the person next to you – and that's perfectly okay. For example, if playing music on the street makes you happy, just go for it! Don't worry about what others might think. It's a simple way to share your joy and spread some positivity.

Don't be afraid to step outside the box. Break free from the expectations that others have set for you. The conventional path may seem tempting, but if it doesn't resonate with your passions, it won't lead to lasting happiness. Sometimes, the most fulfilling successes come from unexpected places. Embrace the challenges and the moments of uncertainty. They are all part of your personal growth and discovery.

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As you go through life, be with folks who like the real you. Make friends who understand your unique journey and cheer you on to find real happiness. It's fine to ask for advice, but always choose what feels right for you in the end. Stick to what makes you truly happy and fulfilled!

Think about how things are going for you from time to time. Are you still doing things that make you happy? Is your idea of success changing? It's okay for what matters most to shift around, so don't be afraid to change your goals. Remember, it's not about winning or losing, it's about you. Decide what success means to you, stick to what you love, and enjoy every step of the journey. Break the rules a bit, trust your feelings, and make a life that brings you not just success, but long-lasting happiness. Because the best kind of success is the one that feels true to who you really are.

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В стремлении к самопознанию мы часто раскрываем суть того, кем мы являемся на самом деле. Это путешествие самоанализа, глубокое исследование, выходящее за пределы поверхности.
we should be boss of our life with self believe and trust on own capabilities.
Fine post, thanks or sharing
Exactly , we must listen to out heart and believe in our feelings. nice write up!
In the pursuit of self-discovery, we often unravel the essence of who we truly are. It's a journey of introspection, a profound exploration that goes beyond the surface.
Interesting article thank you
When you know who you are, you tend to grow faster
As alike as we are, we are all build unique. Knowing and understanding yourself is the first step to true success and a strong foundation, i think. Thanks for the post✊🏼