Mother's love with her child

14 May 2023

I was the only one who went to the wedding, as Viraj was away on tour. Appa and mother-in-law had gone on a pilgrimage then, so there was no question for them. Enayat's parents immediately left for the boy in Muscat and severed their relationship with Enayat. Because of that Who will come to take care of Neeraj's son in that terrible situation? And I will leave that little baby to someone's trust? Though he live to strengthen the rope of his poor life! That day, Neeraj and Eena had gone to Lonavala for their company's commercial shoot. Ishaan was at home with his nanny. So after finishing work in the evening both of them hurriedly left to come to Mumbai. So his car was in speed. The brakes of the tanker coming in front of it failed and it came straight and hit the car itself. The car was completely destroyed. Both Neeraj and Eena went to the spot.

The latter two barely escaped being thrown out by fate. And Ishaan survived because he was at home. When I brought him home, our family sympathized with him. Because the event itself was so terrible. Moreover, their understanding was that after a few days I would send Ishaan to his grandparents. But after seeing that he was staying with us even after three or four months, he did not let his mother-in-law stay. He simply asked me, "What c Did Jaya, Ishaan's grandfather, uncle inform anyone? Otherwise, once this house is attacked, it will be very difficult!" "But how can I tell? I don't know their address and I don't have their number." "Did you get it in Neeraj's house?" "I searched as much as I could find, but I couldn't find anything. Ena probably doesn't even have an address for them!" "But then who will take care of Ishaan?" "I am no! He is not so distantly related to me that it is time to put him in an orphanage immediately." "Uh, I didn't mean to say that either, but your job? Since Isha has grown up, none of us have the habit of taking care of a small child anymore. Earlier in our time there was always one child after another in the house. So it was a habit." "For now, I am extending the leave until Ishaan gets used to his home. After that, I will keep a woman at home, that's it." "I think you'd rather fly It will be good if you get used to the nursery. If you keep a woman in the house, we have to keep an eye on her. And it's already clear that I'm not going to make it!” “Ah, but it was your insistence that Isha wanted a brother? Then you have to keep an eye on him, right?" "Don't get caught up in the words. Do I need to tell you that that story is different and this story is different?" "But I don't think it's different at all. Our home needed a child and this baby needs a home. It is only a question of our belief." But the mother-in-law did not wait to hear my answer. He went to the temple and started the worship. Along with that, Venkatesha Stotra was also loudly saying, 'Annayahi Dahi Disha Amha Firvisi Jagadisha Kripaluwa Parampurusha Karuna Kaisi Tuj Na Ye', I thought I should go there and say to them, 'How come you don't feel compassion for Ishaan? If he is not given a place in our house, then it is time to move in the right direction for food Why won't he come? Should such a time befall a child born in such a good family?' But what will be the use of me saying this? Is his attitude towards Ishaan going to change a bit? Ishaan's only fault was that he was my brother's son and again his mother was Muslim! It is clear to me that such a boy cannot be his grandson. So what's the use of saying the same thing over and over again? I remembered when Ishaan was born, Eena had said, "Jaya, if we had a son, we had already decided that I would name him Ishaan." "Why c? As Isha's brother? Or because your name has 'E' in Ishaan and Neeraj's name has 'N'? No, it is the fashion to name children like that these days!" "Tell me the truth? I was determined to name your Lekki as a token of my respect for you.

Everyone was strongly opposed to our marriage. You stood by me at that time. It is because of your support that Neeraj and I could see these days." Oh, don't put me on the banyan tree. Oh well, who else is Neeraj? Don't take my mother's anger on your heart. She will come running when she finds out that she has a grandson! It's good that Isha also got a brother, now Baisaheb will be very happy to have a brother." I said that mother will come to meet Eana to satisfy her. Because both Neeraj and Eena wanted their mother to come to them. At the time of happiness, we feel the lack of our people, in the last five-seven years, Neeraj had earned a lot of name in advertising. He had opened his own ad agency. The main thing is that Enayat supported him well. Much of the responsibility of the agency rested on her. Both of them had prepared well. Acespace for office, plus own studio, large flat for living. Two cars at the door. Literally, Neeraj had created such a world from nothing. That too in such a short time. Anyone who sees it will appreciate it. Shalya Neeraj felt that only his mother had not seen his glory. The main thing is that she will definitely come to see Ishaan It was sure. I also told her kindly. I used to praise Ena's beauty and her nature in front of her so much that she would want to go to them. Once Neeraj himself went to fetch her, but she did not go. Both the uncle's daughters are in America so when they both went to live with their Lekkis, mother did not go with them. She stayed alone in her own house. So Neeraj was very worried about his mother. While taking care of his mother, suddenly Neeraj passed away. The feeling of guilt that he had acted against his mother's will did not allow him to relax even in Neeraj's glory.

Now that time has come for the mother. It is so true that we can never recognize the steps of this destiny that reverses the situation and catches a person in its scissors! Neeraj's life was destroyed by that one stroke of destiny. My golden brother left us in such a moment. But he had no time to grieve. Little Ishaan had to be patiently taken care of. Since I used to come and go with Neeraj, he knew me a little bit. All others are strangers to him. Meanwhile, his nanny's father fell ill again, so she went to her village. One difficulty after another. He came home with Ishaan. But there was no one to love him in our house either. I thought, holding Isha's hand, this will eventually grow. But Ishahi treats him harshly. Pavolapavali angers him. In all these years, she has become accustomed to being pampered alone. And even if she says no now, this participant in her love.

She doesn't mind that pay a lot of attention to Ishaan. I was stunned by the incident that day. Esha wanted to write an essay, so she followed me. But at the same time Ishaan was also crying so I told her, "Oh, it's time for him to be hungry. feed him and then we write the essay." But she knows that! On the contrary, she said angrily to me, "Since Ishaan came, I have not liked you. It's true what Grandma says!" "What does grandma say? And about whom? About Ishaan?" "Yes, yes! About Ishaan! He is a boy No! That's why you like him. Grandma told me!" Isha said excitedly. After hearing that, she didn't know how to understand. It is already the age of confusion. Her grandmother should put something like this in her mind! When Ishaan had to bring me, I thought that he would understand my pain and stand firmly by my side. But the opposite happened! They clearly told me that they will not be able to support me. I understood it, because the limitations of age make one desperate. At such times, only words should be given support. That's what I thought so much. What to do if a woman can't understand a woman's heart? In fact, he always felt the regret that Viraj did not have a son. I never considered this difference. That's why I thought they should consider Ishaan as their grandson. But she was using it to fill Isha's ears. Till now I had only heard that people's nature changes according to the situation. Now he was experiencing it directly and was getting numb. I didn't know who to trust. Even though we have been living together for so many years, the close relationship that should be formed has happened Wasn't it? Then it was my mistake to think that they sympathized with my suffering. But seeing Isha's behavior, I thought that Ishaan's uncle should be searched. If this attitude takes root in Isha's mind, her attitude towards Ishaan will change and it will hurt everyone. Ishanla will have to bear the brunt of the consequences. Better send him to his uncle! Ena's relatives used to live in Kulabya, I decided to go there and find out the address of his uncle. But before I left, Ena's own brother came to visit us one day. He also agreed to take Ishaan. But then he said, “I will adopt Ishaan. We will also change his religion for that. All this has to be done when we get there." "But why change religion? You can raise him as your sister's son." "My father will not have it at all. That is why he did not allow Enayat to get married. If Neeraj had changed his religion and come to us, we would have gladly accepted him. My sister had to leave her home. And now the responsibility of taking care of his son fell on us. What did they gain by being stubborn?" "Look, do not speak ill of the departed. If Neeraj was stubborn, he would have forced your sister to convert. But he didn't do it.

You might not know that he had to leave his own home for that. And that Neeraj himself did not change his religion why should we change his two year old son's religion?" "What's wrong with him? When he grows up, he will join our religion!" "From what? And once he grows up and realizes that we will give him complete freedom to do as he pleases! But till then you cannot force him." "We will see to it. Once you hand him over to us, your responsibility is over." "Chee, Chee! If you are going to change his religion, I will not hand him over to you." After saying that Ishaan's religion will change Appa was also very agitated. Finally he said, "Right now Ishaan is very young and Jaya is the only one who has him, so he will not be without her. So there is no point in sending him with you right now. So don't take the trouble of taking him away." Seeing Appa's eagerness in speaking, he also took a step back, and then somehow my life came to life. In fact, it cost me my life to send him. But only for his good I had that thought, but they already gave me the idea to change Ishaan's religion so it was fine! Otherwise, he would have done all this without being taken there? My brother and sister-in-law got married without changing their religion, not only that, but respecting each other's religion, they made their married life happy. So what right do we have to force this religion on their children? I did not like it at all. But seeing me alone, Ena's brother might not have heard me. But even Appa did not like this trick of his conversion, so it was fine. He also protested wholeheartedly. Later I literally thanked Appa. Seeing this yearning to take care of Ishaan, that too changed a little.

They tried to help me as much as possible. But very heart patient! So they didn't want to lift anything heavy. And Ishaan is such a baby bearer that even if I carry him and walk for a while, I get tired too. Once Ishaan wanted to pick up Appa from behind, so when Appa picked him up, his chest immediately started hurting. The doctor said bed rest for seven to eight days. So the mother-in-law took Ishaan to such an extent that she did not even allow him to go near his father. As a drowning man should be supported by a stick, I got the appancha, it also stopped completely. On the other hand, I had to put oil in my eyes and keep a watchful eye so that Ishaan does not go to Appa's room. There was no point in expecting anything from Viraj. He is immersed in his office, tours and parties! If he is in the house, he has to take care of his deployment. His mood goes down for so many reasons and now Ishaan is his headache.

Even if you start crying in front of him, he doesn't like it at all. then Even a straight meal is left half way. Moreover, lately I can't go to parties with him or give parties at home because of Ishaan, so he feels Ishaan's hindrance. The party was the foundation of his marketing. What if Neeraj and I had felt the same way about uncle? We were both young when our father passed away suddenly due to a heart attack. Mother did not have a job and again suffered from intermittent asthma. There was no one else in the house to take care of both of us. When our uncle saw all this situation, he took us straight to his house and said to the aunt, "These three will stay here from today. Both will learn with their daughters." Kaki didn't say a single word about it. From that time we became an integral part of uncle's house. If the mother was well, she would help the aunt, otherwise she would stay in bed for days and days. Yet aunt never grumbled.

We were given what was available. They were not doing anything different for us. But as much as we did, our lives were buried. Today I am on my own She is standing only because of them! And whatever success Neeraj has in life is also due to his grace! What else would we have done? Our life would have wandered somewhere! And now the same time has come for Ishaan. But I can't do anything right for him. In fact our financial situation is better than that of uncle. Moreover, the uncle was responsible for the education and marriage of his two daughters. I added more to it. On the contrary, we were also thinking that Isha should have a sibling. As Isha grew up, I really wanted to see her childhood again. I didn't understand what this inner pull was. But again that sparrow stepped, the gossip seemed to rise again in the house. At such a time, Ishaan has come to our house. After hugging him, everything was forgotten. But others in the house do not want his existence. Everyone tries to avoid him. Why should this happen? Are the relationship contracts also changing according to the situation? The former love for each other has been replaced by only selfishness. I bring I have no place for duty in this circle. When my mother was told that the situation had changed, she would get very angry and she would say angrily, " "What exactly do you mean by the situation that has changed? The natural situation has not changed at all. Moon and Sun rise on time. The cuckoo sings only in spring. All the seasons make their appearance on time. It's just going back and forth." "Oh, I didn't mean about the natural situation! Doesn't the social situation seem to have changed?' "The reason for changing it is because your mindset is changing, it is the result! The customs that used to make man have been replaced by things that are not wanted. Because of this, the values in life have been reversed. And the result is that the details of behavior are changing. That is why your brother did not care about us for his own happiness. As a reward for his uncle's favor, his mouth was slapped with black." Mother's anger finally comes to an end with Neeraj's marriage. Because uncle had no son They both have daughters! Then the mother wanted Neeraj to come forward and do everything under the responsibility of the child. If Neeraj had been able to support her uncles and aunts in their old age, she would have had the satisfaction of repaying their kindness. But his marriage shattered all her expectations. Mother herself did not like his marriage, but rather she took pains that he should hurt his uncles and aunts. Even when uncle and aunt went to their daughters, she did not leave her house and go to Niraj. Not only this, she did not take the last darshan of Neeraj and Eena. What if the mother had twisted her stubborn nature a little? But as Viraj says, there is no point in getting stuck in this vortex. So much of life's meaning is lost by getting caught up in these necessary bonds, and when we realize it, there is nothing we can do about it. What if Viraj had turned out the way I felt at the time of marriage? Again, this is a bit odd. But really how different were my ideas about Viraj at the time of Lagna. I was overwhelmed by his behavior at that time. Even today I am fascinated by that Viraj from eleven years ago. How sensible it seemed to me at that time! Because he made a demand on his own for a girl like me who had broken a once arranged marriage. All of us were shocked to see this. Until then, had received rejections from many places, because it was assumed that it was the girl's fault in breaking the arranged marriage. There was no hope of getting a lot of dowry from us. Still both my uncle and mother washed their hands and followed behind to arrange my marriage. As usual there was a rejection from one of the boys. But surprisingly, the friend of the boy who came with them came to our house the very next day. We all thought this rejection was coming. Uncle even said, "We have heard about your friend's death only yesterday. That's what you came for, right?" "No! I have come for myself. Despite his rejection, I like the girl. If you are ready, I am ready for marriage." 'Ready for marriage? Even knowing my background? why That's all about me What is the reason for sympathy?' I wanted to ask that boy. But uncle and mother would not like this, rather they would think I was presumptuous, so Mugh swallowed and remained silent. They are already very angry with me.

He said that why should I tell every place that my marriage has broken! But I didn't agree with that. It was my insistence that you should say this, so they had to say it. It was because of my uncle's acquaintance that I got married. There was also a sugar rush. But the marriage did not happen. Because my intended husband secretly took his girlfriend and ran away to foreign. Now uncle had decided this, so the question of his prestige came. So no matter what you think, you want to show your nephew by getting married. The nephew was also good looking and had a good job. So they thought it would be a quick hit. But my broken marriage always haunted me. My cousin, seeing all this, used to say, "The truth is that the boy who breaks such a marriage should be prosecuted and the court should also give him a good prison sentence." "Ah, to that boy's parents

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