The Pillars of a Blissful Life

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30 Nov 2024
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What is the secret to a blissful life? And why does it seem to be a secret? Shouldn't such knowledge be accessible to everyone, thus facilitating universal happiness?


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During my childhood, due to financial instability, new purchases such as slippers were a rare luxury. Consequently, I yearned for wealth as a means to replicate the lives of other families; eating delicious meals, acquiring new items, clothes, toys, sweets, or school materials seemed to promise a wonderful and joyful existence. This was my childlike perception of a happy life.


However, as years passed and I began to earn my own income, I realized my previous misconceptions – though I was no longer in a state of constant want, happiness still eluded me. Why wasn't I fulfilled? Why was my heart and mind not at ease? What needed to change or occur for me to find absolute happiness?


Searching for inspiration on happiness, I discovered a captivating short video featuring Dr. Robert Waldinger, "The Secret to a Happy Life." Drawing on the landmark Harvard Study of Adult Development—the longest-running study of its kind—Waldinger reveals compelling insights into what truly contributes to a fulfilling life.


The video powerfully underscores the importance of strong relationships, demonstrating that close connections are far more crucial for well-being than wealth or fame. It's a moving testament to the power of love, intimacy, and social connection to enhance longevity, happiness, and overall health. This is a must-watch for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of what truly matters in life.


What others are suggesting is accurate - the secret to a blissful existence isn't a single, magical formula, but instead a tapestry woven from numerous threads. There's no universal solution; however, for me, these are the elements that will bring me joy (and perhaps others too). These components could notably enhance one’s likelihood of discovering enduring satisfaction.


Cultivating Meaningful Connections

“One of the best feelings in the world is knowing your presence and absence both mean something to someone.”


This quote perfectly encapsulates the essence of cultivating meaningful connections. It describes a reciprocal relationship where both parties invest in and benefit from the connection. It is a testament to the time and effort put into cultivating meaningful relationships. The feeling of being missed, valued, and having a positive impact on another person's life is a powerful reward for the investment in fostering meaningful connections. It's the feeling of belonging, of being truly seen and appreciated for who you are.


Embracing Self-Compassion

“Be kind to yourself, for we all struggle to find our way in this vast universe.” – Avijeet Das


Avijeet Das' quote directly supports the idea of a happy life through embracing self-compassion. The core message is self-kindness. The phrase "Be kind to yourself" encourages a compassionate inner dialogue, replacing self-criticism and judgment with understanding and acceptance. This is the foundation of self-compassion—treating oneself with the same empathy and understanding one would offer a close friend facing similar challenges.


Finding Your Purpose

“If you organize your life around your passion, you can turn your passion into your story and then turn your story into something bigger – something that matters.” – Blake Mycoskie


The process of aligning one's life with their passions, creating a meaningful narrative, and contributing to something greater fosters a sense of fulfillment, accomplishment, and purpose that contributes significantly to happiness. When your daily actions reflect your core values and aspirations, you create a life that aligns with your authentic self, leading to greater satisfaction and overall well-being. This active engagement with life, driven by purpose, creates a sense of meaning and fulfillment that is fundamentally linked to happiness.


Practicing Gratitude

There is no better excess in the world than the excess of gratitude.” – Jean de La Bruyère


It's not enough to simply acknowledge good things; true benefit comes from an overflowing and consistent practice of gratitude. This suggests regular and intentional reflection on what one is thankful for. Unlike other excesses that might be harmful or detrimental, an abundance of gratitude is entirely beneficial and even desirable. This highlights gratitude's significant positive impact on well-being.


Prioritizing Physical and Mental Health

“Your mental health is everything - prioritize it, make the time like your life depends on it, because it does.” – Mel Robbins


This quote unequivocally states that mental health is paramount – "everything." It's not just a component of a happy life; it's the very foundation upon which happiness is built. Without good mental health, other aspects of life, even physical health, can suffer.


While my chosen quote explicitly mentions mental health, the same principle applies to physical health. Both are intricately linked. Neglecting physical health through poor diet, lack of exercise, or insufficient sleep negatively impacts mental health, increasing the risk of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges. Conversely, poor mental health can lead to neglect of physical health.


Embracing Imperfection

“A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is, instead of thinking what it should be.”


The core message is about accepting reality as it is, rather than fighting against it or dwelling on how things "should" be. This directly translates to embracing imperfections. Life is inherently imperfect; things don't always go according to plan, people make mistakes, and circumstances are rarely ideal. Resisting this reality leads to frustration, disappointment, and unhappiness.



The key to a blissful existence isn't a mystery; rather, it necessitates a deliberate decision to foster these factors in your everyday life. It's a continuous journey, not a destination, and demands constant endeavor and self-consciousness. However, the returns - a life abundant with happiness, togetherness, and significance - are immeasurable.



You've come this far. May the Divine Grace be upon you.


If you have some spare time to review my other pieces of writing, I would greatly appreciate your support and I thank you in advance.


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