The loss of a pet that changed my life.

“One reason why losing a pet is such a deep loss is because animals’ love is so unconditional and accepting,”😔. But it’s also because so many aspects of people’s lives are impacted. “Every single facet of life is part of the loss,”. “Your cat or dog will sit in the bathroom with you while you take a bath, they’re there 24/7. When we are caretakers for animals, it multiplies the intensity just before they die. It’s like your whole life has been shredded.”

Our pets often have seen us through major life changes, from divorce or illness to starting a new school or job, so the relationship can be devastating to lose.

Ways to Cope With Grief

Although pet lovers can relate to the heartbreak, grieving the loss of a pet, as opposed to a human, is still a disenfranchised grief in today’s society. Comments like “It’s just a dog‚” or “Are you going to get another cat?” can feel hurtful and isolating. “Many who come to the group are people who had this once-in-a-lifetime special bond,” Anschuetz said. “They don’t want to hear about getting another pet. And they shouldn’t until their grief process is done.”
Some people draw comfort in finding ways to memorialize their loss, like scattering their pet’s ashes on a favorite hiking trail or burying them in a meaningful place. Others host a service to honor their loved one.

At least we should always go through photos and create an album or enlarge and frame favorite pet pictures
Plant a memorial tree
Make a donation to a pet charity in their name
Find and use resources‚ including pet loss support groups and the online chatrooms of the nonprofit Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement. Your veterinarian might offer or be able to refer you to local groups.