What are the dangers of having sex too early? At what age is the best age to start?

In the blooming season of youth, some people laugh and laugh in the classroom, while others cry bitterly in the hospital.

When boys and girls have sex too early, what will happen? Listen to what the doctor says.

1. I know that after becoming a father, I will never be able to contact him again

As the college entrance examination approached, Sara , who was in high school, came to the operating room accompanied by her mother. It turned out that she had been in a relationship with a boy who had just graduated for two years behind her back and secretly lived together for a year until she recently became pregnant.

After the boyfriend learned about it, he went to another place under the pretext of a business trip and could not be contacted again. The helpless Sara could only ask her mother for help. After careful consideration, her mother took her daughter to the hospital for an abortion.

The doctor recalled that Sara had been crying silently during the operation, and she was also distraught after the operation and refused to communicate. The once oath of love has now turned into bubbles, leaving only the traces of the surgery on the body.

2. The "forbidden fruit" eaten too early, leaving a mouth full of bitterness

During adolescence, due to the influence of hormones, boys and girls may eat forbidden fruits early without careful consideration, but this behavior may bring huge harm.

First of all, for women, the reproductive organs are not fully developed at this time. Sexual life at this stage is more susceptible to infections and lesions, increasing the risk of gynecological diseases. If appropriate protective measures are not taken during sexual intercourse, women's risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases will also be greatly increased.

From a male perspective, the damage cannot be ignored. Entering sexual life early may cause men anxiety and tension, leading to failure of sexual intercourse for the first time, which will have a psychological impact and cause sexual dysfunction. In addition, a lack of basic sexual knowledge and hygiene may make men susceptible to genital infections and lead to male diseases such as prostatitis.

If a woman has an unintended pregnancy, both parties will bear a huge psychological burden. They may feel fearful and uncomfortable and not know how to handle the situation. Even if the problem of an unintended pregnancy is eventually resolved, the psychological toll may linger. The "forbidden fruit" tasted will only be bitter.

3. At what age should sexual intercourse begin? don't be shy to understand

A study in the American "Health" magazine found that people who start having sex too early (before the age of 18) or too late (after the age of 30) may face more problems in their marriages, such as being prone to cheating and not knowing how to handle the relationship between husband and wife. . But for the actual specific time, many factors need to be considered.

Physiological maturity is a necessary condition. Female reproductive organs are usually fully developed around the age of 17-18. There may be some individual differences, but the difference will not be too big.

However, deciding when to start having sex depends not only on physiological factors, but also on factors such as psychological development, sexual knowledge reserves, contraceptive methods, understanding of feelings, and work and study. In other words, it is more recommended to start sexual life after both physical and psychological maturity.

① Physical and psychological maturity are key factors, including the development of reproductive organs and psychological maturity to be able to understand and deal with various aspects of sexual relationships.

② Have sufficient sexual knowledge and correct sexual concepts to ensure that sexual behavior is conducted on an informed and voluntary basis, and can effectively take contraceptive measures and prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

③ Have a sense of responsibility and be able to take responsibility for one's own body and sexual behavior, including taking appropriate contraceptive measures and dealing with the consequences of sexual behavior.

Taking the above conditions into consideration can provide a more comprehensive assessment of a person's suitability to start a sexual life.

4. If it happens correctly the first time, you still need to understand these things
Before you have sex for the first time, you should also pay attention to the following key factors to ensure a healthy and enjoyable sex life.

1. Informed consent is important

Every sexual life must be based on the complete consent of both parties. Especially in the first sexual experience of both men and women, nervousness and uneasiness are inevitable, so it is very important to be mentally prepared through clear informed consent to avoid negative effects on sexual life due to nervousness and fear.

2. Understand basic sexual knowledge

During first sexual intercourse, both men and women should work hard to learn basic sexual knowledge and understand the physiological characteristics and organ structures of both parties. After all, any practice requires the support of theoretical knowledge. Only by understanding each other better physiologically can we provide each other with more satisfaction in future sexual life and ensure a pleasant and satisfying sexual relationship together.

3. Be sure to pay attention to hygiene

Both men and women should ensure genital hygiene during any sexual intercourse . This is because vaginal secretions and foreskin dirt may be present, and not cleaning them in time may lead to health problems. Especially for women, whose hymen may rupture after first intercourse, cleaning is especially important to reduce the risk of bacterial infection.

4. Contraceptive measures should be taken

For those who are not planning to become pregnant, it is necessary to ensure that they have condoms, birth control pills, etc. Condoms are more than 95% effective, not only preventing pregnancy, but also effectively preventing sexually transmitted diseases. For men and women who are having an intimate relationship for the first time, they should not take risks, but should fully realize the importance of contraception to protect their health and future.
For the first time to happen, it not only requires physical maturity, but also psychological maturity. When both parties are fully prepared, what awaits is a truly wonderful sex life.