Don't force what doesn't belong to you.

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21 Jan 2023
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Love is the most beautiful harbor in everyone's heart.

Sometimes, you think that each other's future will be great, but it is not.

Apart from the admirable and beautiful love in the world, there will also be some sorrows, regrets and feelings.

There are many people in this world and the person you love may not necessarily have the same feelings of love for you.

In this case, if you are still obsessed, you will only trap yourself and not be able to pull yourself out of this feeling.

In fact, in love, if you don't have a relationship with the person, then do not try to force a relationship with, do not believe in this love.

Don't force someone who isn't yours.

It doesn't matter what you do for him and how much money you spend to make him happy, his heart will not be warmed.

People pass by countless people every day, and only a small part will become a confidant in their life.

In the world of love, some people will not belong to you even if they meet you.

Such people never like to connect with you because their thinking is different, the other person's heart will not be warm.

People who don't want to relate to you won't be impressed by your efforts.

Those who do not have heartfelt feelings will not appreciate your support nor will they have feelings of love for you.

The other party's heart is initially cold, so your warm-hearted efforts are wasted.

People who don't love you will not change their minds because of your hard work and dedication.

What is touching in your own eyes is very stressful in the other's eyes, and they dare not to accept your efforts.

At this time, you become humble, and the other party will not accept your love, it will only make the other party farther away from you.

The other party will worry that your efforts are for other purposes. So instead of hurting you, he will try to end his relationship with you as much as possible.

Even if the other party knows that you are doing this out of goodwill, they will not really accept your contribution, because they are afraid that you will misunderstand.

In fact, people always have their own destiny in life.

If you can't be a lover, you can be a friend, and you can also be a constant companion

The situation in life is actually very wonderful. For some people, you and the other party may not be lovers, but they can be good friends.

In fact, you can always be with each other without having to endure the pain of parting.

Whether you still have love for this person or not, being friends can be a good choice.

If you still like it, then it is better to accompany each other when you have changed your identity, rather than distance yourself from each other.

Because after meeting each other as friends, as time goes by, you will actually gradually drift away from each other in a loving relationship and no longer cling to each other.

Conclusion:

Everyone only has one life, if you're depressed for someone who doesn't want to meet you, it's really not worth it.

In fact, the other party will not fall in love with you because of your sacrifice, nor will he change his mind.

Don't force yourself for someone who doesn't love you, your real fate will actually be waiting for you in the future.

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