Why spread hate? Make people happy.

21 Jun 2024

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Good morning everyone! It's a bright and shiny morning, and I'm happy to be here with all of you. You all look fantastic. I've recently learned that some people are facing difficulties due to illness, and we should keep them in our prayers. I hope you all are in good health. Let's move on to our topic for today.

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Now, I think it's time to delve into today's topic. But before I begin, if you haven't checked out my previous articles, I encourage you to do so.

Judge Yourself Before Anyone

Don't Embarrass People in Public

Before we dive into today's topic, here's a disclaimer: I am not someone who supports any type of quarrelling or chaos, whether for a good reason or a bad one. I don't endorse it. Now, let's get to the point. We often witness someone shouting at another person. It's a common incident, but here's an important fact about it.

When you scream or shout at someone, you only make that person feel annoyed or embarrassed. Passersby see and witness this scene. Familiar, right? Has it happened to you? Yes, we've all had this type of experience at least once in our lifetime. However, the situation can be handled differently. You can make your point more effectively by calmly explaining it rather than creating an embarrassing scene.

Maybe you are owed some money by someone. Maybe someone betrayed you. I understand your feelings. But who gave you the authority to embarrass that person in public? Have you ever imagined how that person feels? What would you do if the same thing happened to you? Remember, what goes around comes around, and history tends to repeat itself. Maybe tomorrow, or 20 years later, you will face the same consequences. What will be your plan then? Ever imagined?

Make People Understand Your Situation

I'm not saying you don't have the right to be angry with someone who cheated or betrayed you, whether with money or in love. You have every right to be upset. But your rage can spread further than you realize. That anger will transfer to the other person, and they might try to retaliate.

Please, don't shout in public. Everyone has their own dignity in this society. Even a beggar deserves respect. You can't take that away from them. Self-respect is something we all care about deeply. It's heartbreaking that many people, especially women, commit suicide over lost self-respect. As a man, I personally feel ashamed of this reality. I'm sorry for going off track. Back to the point: we should be mindful of others' self-respect too.

What To Do Then?

This is a valid and important question. If we choose not to embarrass people in public, how do we reclaim what is owed to us? We should help them understand our situation and perspective, but not with hatred. We can call them to our office or to a less public place. Sit together, but don't start with an argument. Ask them gently. Listen to them first. Understand their current situation. Your anger, rage, and desire for revenge might subside. After some time, explain your situation to them. Try to make them understand in a calm voice. Never, I repeat, never try to overpower them with your loud voice. Be smooth and easy with them.

Spread Love, Not Hate

Your calm behavior and gentle words will have a positive impact. The person will understand your words, and people around you will praise you. The person will likely try their best to meet your demands. See, how easily it can be resolved?

Ending Thoughts

Dear friends, spread love. This is life. We won't have it again. Why spread hate? Make people happy. Your kind personality and beautiful gestures can change the attitude of the person who owes you.

Until we meet again, stay curious, stay connected, and above all, stay true to yourself.
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