Why do parents avoid love marriage of children?

Whenever a boy and a girl start liking each other, then the next challenge before them is to persuade the family members for marriage.


Everyone must have heard this saying that 'pairs are made in the sky', but still the people of the land do not believe in this proverb. Whenever it comes to marriage, people tend to do their own manipulations. In such a situation, if it comes to love marriage, it often becomes a big issue in Indian homes. In such a situation, the young generation does not understand why their parents are so against their love marriage. So let's know some special reasons for this-

1. Employees have family-like relationships:

By giving special facilities to the employees, the performance of the company also became very good. With this, relations between him and the employees became like family members. The employees of the company consider him as their elder brother.

2. Not Trusting Children's Choices:

Maybe your parents have always seen that you are not able to take the right decisions. Sometimes he has met your friends or girlfriend-boyfriend and he did not like them. There can be any reason that makes them think that your decision will not be right. They may also fear that the partner of your choice will not treat them well. In such a situation, they will always be against your love marriage.

3. Fear of Being a Stranger:

In arranged marriage, the relationship is formed through some acquaintance or family. There is a belief attached to them that the one you are adopting is your own. But when it comes to love marriage, the family feels as if a relationship with a stranger is about to happen. He feels that he is placing the life of his son or daughter in the hands of someone whom he will never know or know properly.

4. No one in the family did love marriage:

There is still such a thing in many families where there has never been a love marriage. Where all the marriages have been arranged, getting a love marriage also becomes a matter of great trouble for the parents. They feel that just by doing love marriage their child should not break this tradition of the family.

5. What people will say:

Parents and family are also afraid of what people will say. If they get their child's love marriage done and the partner does not turn out to be right, then how many people will taunt them, many times parents do not say yes to love marriage even because of this fear. They feel fear of relatives, neighbors and society.