A REMINDER THAT YOU ARE AWESOME AND YOU ARE DOING JUST FINE.

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14 Dec 2022
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A REMINDER THAT YOU ARE AWESOME AND YOU ARE DOING JUST FINE.

Having people who believe in you and your improvement is ranked high on the most blissful things in the world. it is easy for people to put you down for your mistakes but having that one person who tells you, "Try again, you're doing great" is so important.
I tend to overthink my mistakes and i end up feeling worse about them than i should.
In the past, i would think about a mistake i made for hours nonstop. my countenance will be affected for the whole day. The only solution for me then was for the day to go by.

I used to be ashamed of myself for every mistake i made. I was judging myself before others could. I became so glued to the idea of perfection that my happiness depended on how free of mistakes my day was.
I started telling myself that if i didn't make a mistake, I'd be competing with God.
God made me and said i was GOOD. He didn't say i wouldn't make mistakes. He meant , irrespective of my flaws and mistakes, I am GOOD.
God looked at me and said that i am GOOD.

At first i told myself this so that i would feel better , but later on, I started believing it.
what makes me feel even better is that, there are people who are there to calm me down and cheer me on. I may not be perfect at certain things but i won't stop trying.
So relax, it's just a mistake. it's not the end of the world. Life only gets better from here. This is your cue to loosen up and enjoy life. When you make mistakes, it's perfectly fine. what is not fine is not trying again. And actually,
If you do not want to try again, that is also fine. A great disservice to yourself, but it's fine.

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