What I expect from my Financial Submissives

Disclaimer

Just a little warning: some adult and sexual language lies ahead. This article is meant to be an educational tool for people curious about findom and what it entails. With the rise in popularity of the kink in popular media (primarily TIkTok), has come a lot of misunderstanding about it's purpose and role in both sex work and general kink. My goal is to provide insight into how professional Dominatrixes and Findommes ethically and responsibly perform this work for enjoyment with consenting adults. My goal is to show that this often misunderstood concept of Financial Domination isn't just "hot young women demanding money". It's a psychological and mental game of control, worship, and mutual benefit between those who enjoy receiving it and those who enjoy the flirtatious psychology of it.

The below may not be applicable to every single Findomme, as how they run things varies based on their own personalities and kinks. This is just an example to give insight in how I most enjoy performing my own practice and engaging with my submissives.

What Findommes Often Want:

I want submissives who will challenge me intellectually. Who will fund my interests while teaching me something about them. Who can have conversations with me and flirt with me; and who know that forced financial submission isn’t the true worship I desire.

I want you to send because you enjoy it. Because the idea of me getting that alert and thinking about where to apply those new funds in my life makes your cock twitch or your pussy tighten. I want you to think of sending without being reminded because it’s the only real pleasure you’ll ever get to show this phenomenal, Divine body.

I won’t tell you how and when to send outside of helping you make a schedule. I won’t remind you endlessly. If you’re old enough to participate in findom, you’re mature enough to keep track of yourself and know that if you don’t do as you’re supposed to, your punishment is losing my attention and time.

This post was originally published on my website, lindymyles.com